Wine Glass Girl

Eggs anyone!

So, today I woke up with the sun peaking through the wooden blinds laying in my husbands arms. The sound of Cajun music waking us slowly.
…but soon I get that calling and jumped out of bed to get my first mug of Community Dark Roast Coffee…let the dogs out and then found myself crawling back in bed for a minute until the house warmed up…
Closed my eyes with a big smile, just knowing that today was going to another ME day!
Looking forward to a visit to my favorite massage therapist, for that nagging sore knot I’ve been suffering with since falling in love with bike riding.
So, my morning is off to a beautiful start.

My massage was great…from head to toe…my body is at peace. Touch is so essential for any human being but for those who need that extra special touch, massage therapy is so beneficial in so many ways.

For me, I can now bend my leg the way I’ am supposed to! And I feel great!
After my massage, I stopped at a local grocery store that has the freshest produce.
Tonight our wonderful neighbors, who are like family to us are cooking and I’m bring the salad.
So, I wanted the freshest produce to make a yummy and splendid salad.
As I returned to my desk I decided to check in on Face Book.
As I reviewed the many different status updates, I came across one of my friends from high schools status. It revealed to me that she has just lost a dear friend and having a difficult time.
Well, the miracle worker I try to be at times came out in me.
And I started sending her messages of support and relief. I also began finding videos from YouTube to post, to lift her up.
As I was doing this I became so enthralled in the moment that I lost track of time.
Next thing I know the mechanic who was in our backyard yelled out to me from across the yard…“You cooking something?”

Well. …The light bulb went off in my ditzy little brain and I took off like a bolt of lighting!

To save some time this evening, when I came home from the grocery store, I put some eggs boiling for the salad.

I had every intention of going back in to get them in 20 minutes but of course, I got distracted! While helping my friend and tending to the shop business.
You cant imagine what I walked in my house to find!
Egg Explosion! Eggs everywhere!
From the kitchen sink all the way to the front door of my house! I even had eggs on the ceiling!
I must be the only person in the world that can burn eggs. Now I must be the only one that can make them explode!
As I was cleaning up, I had put in today to clean and she did everything she could to get rid of the seafood smell, but it just wouldnt go away.
Well….the seafood smell is gone…without a doubt…
Guess what it smells like now?

Life doesn’t go according to how we plan it. We just have to go with the flow and look forward to a glass of wine at 5! and Look forward to tomorrow.

 Diary Days

Have you ever had a situation where you know you were very emotional because of something that was said to you…
and it possibly made you so miserable, you cried and most likely threw a big fit?!
And then days or maybe just a few weeks later, the event is brought up again likely due to your emotional reaction that you had at that time and you don’t even remember what words were said to you in the first place, that caused all the pain?!
Many people suffer this way, just like you do.
Remembering certain things in your past…
…seems just so ridiculous hard to do!
             Personally, I am in the stats of those who have difficulty remembering things, so don’t feel alone, at all.
I have come to have an understanding that we must block out events in our past for some reason or another.
…………………Experts suggest that some type of repressed memory causes one to block out events that are painful or uncomfortable. So those experts say that behavior therapy would assist in the healing of such repressed memory problems.
Journaling… has been a form of therapy for centuries.

Emotional issues have been hidden deep into your memory can be recaptured by this type of therapy.

Recalling the events that you have repressed…

Reading your journal notes can toggle the memory and help you to overcome the repressed thought.

….when you reread what you have journaled.
As young girls, we are given a diary, to write our most secrets thoughts in.
I wonder how many of us young girls still have our diaries>?
I sure wish I would have kept a diary of my life…A lot would make more sense to me! According to the experts!
……………..I learned a long time ago…. when I went to a bible study…that I should write down all my prayers and keep a journal.
So, later in life I can look back at my prayers and see how God has worked in my life.

And, honestly, when I do look back in my journal at hat I had written down for my prayers….I see that….

He has answered many prayers that I wrote to Him about………….Not all are answered in my time….but answered, nonetheless.
Journaling doesn’t have rules to it…Its not important how long you write or how much you make sense in proper English…
Dating your journal entries IS important!
Just think how rewarding it would be to go back and read something you were going through and measure how much that situation has changed you today.
Kind of sounds like self help to me…and a whole lot cheaper than a shrink these days too.!
………………My oldest daughter….ever since I can remember, has kept a journal…

….Actually the very first diary she received as a gift was in front of all the family…and
When she opened the diary she was so excited…All 10 yrs of her little self she says “Its a Diarrhea?”
Yes we all laughed….and well today the laugh is on us…
She is in nursing school and after all these years still has the many journals she kept her life in during her adolescent years…
…Just recently she mentioned to me that she was rereading one of her diary entries and thought she sounded really weird and crazy.!!!
I can just predict that all those diaries/journals will make her a Best Seller one day!
However you decide to journal, whether it is for remembering your emotional status during that last argument or using it to overcome a fear or tracking your prayers, there is one thing that I know…

….somewhere down the road we will not be here…how do you want to have your grandchildren remember you…I think its a good way to leave a legacy too!
Find joy in writing and I wish you happy journal !

The Day Twitter Froze

Random Thoughts

First..go to www.pandora.com and register…once activated type in type of music…for example something calming soothing…like…
John Mayer or if you want a girlie voice Colbie Calliat and turn the volume downa little low, pour yourself a glass of wine and read away.

Oh! gosh, I had the shakes the giggles, the dear lord comments,  the crazy idea to start drinking wine right after lunch
…All because Twitter Froze 10/8/09
…….I heard it was a full moon this week,
…I detected it early on this week,
………mostly because I noticed others behaviors changing…
……………My nerves all week, have been an emotional wreck.
….Trying to wean myself off of prescription anxiety medicine.
…Thinking I don’t need it anymore…
and what happens…Twitter is Frozen.
I just saw that FaceBook was having problems too!
Oh Gosh, The Social Networking World was Crashing.
My husband just said he’s phone has been acting up all day.
I just read that Iphone was having new issues with the update.
I, who have had the passion to write all my life is writing like 5 different stories, the energy in the air is extremely high.
And after everything I have been trying to do, to earn a living for the past 5 years is coming to a hault.
I went on an interview this morning. Looking at going back to the “Real World”
Time for a change…I will continue to write…my love stays here on the pages of WineGlassGirl.
…lets flashback to everything I have tried to make a go at…
Made new Model/Acting cards and mailed out…Returned to my old talent agent.
Auditioned for 2 movies that I obviously didn’t get.
Sent resumes out to different company’s….for a variety of different jobs.
Try home business such as Melaleuca, GoChi, Nuskin… all totaling a sum of not enough  to buy a truck full of groceries.
Its just time…economic reasons, self growth, wanting to be around girlie girls again, wanting money in my bank account more than anything, to see myself make a difference somewhere in the huge world.
And what do I see as I look back?
That nothing I have done in the past 5 years has been prosperous.
And so, I’m listening to Pandora Internet radio listening to sweet soul music.
My mother in law calls to invite us to dinner, then calls back and says she has to “tell us something” in person…whats that all about?
Something is definitely in the air.
Sureal…would be a word I can use to describe this week.

Im feeling thougtful and happy and silly and just on top of the world! Life is good, life is what you make out of it. I sure hope you find your rainbow today!

www.Pandora.com
www.FaceBook.com
www.Twitter.com

DRAMA….TRANSFERABLE ENERGY
Transference

Oh, Dear Lord,
Yesterday…was so filled with drama and emotion…I felt like a damn zombie all day…

How come drama follows me everywhere I go???
…how come it seems the harder I try to help someone and conquer negativity, the more demons come out and drive daggers into my heart?

Surely, I’m not alone…
And, I know for certain I’am not…
I just recently helped a friend overcome severe anxiety issues and depression….
…and then I became very ill with nausea toward the end of the drama
…And then this week the drama hits me!
 When I use to be a massage therapist I used to feel the body heat and energy rise out of the clients back as I massaged deeper into their tissues.
And…I would wonder why I was sweating and feeling weak…???

So… I have another friend who is a model and bless her heart is so filled with people that are supposed to be her friends but that appears to just use her….for either this reason or that…and its been stealing all of her positive energy!
So, I was trying to help her too.
So of course…me trying to save the world…But actually she saved me this week by giving me advice this week…
Its good Karma…but also kinda like the Pay It Back system…someone does something nice for you and then you do something nice for someone else.

Is this all apart of believing in the stars…?
I’m not one to follow astrology but I have learned that when there is a full moon…all hell breaks loose…
I’m not sure if it is a coincidence or what but something’s are becoming more clear to me as I grow older.

One of the writers of this website is a nursing student and explained to me, that one of the first concepts she learned in nursing school was about “Transference“.
So I looked into it and it really made sense. From a nursing stand point I can see the necessity to understand transference for patience with anxiety issues but for a normal human being living in today’s fast paced world with so many different levels of energy floating around it will take some learning.

Have you ever walked into a room and heard someone screaming, yelling profanity, throwing things?
Automatically we feel the urgency to make a quick escape when negativity exist in our presence…and if we cant escape we have to learn how to endure it.
To ignore negativity does take some practice.
I have managed the drama in my life in many ways but what stays consistent is the faith system I believe in as well as training myself to think a certain way.
Making myself do things that are uncomfortable in order to move on. Getting myself out of the box… that was so safe to stay in.
Which probably wasn’t my fault to begin with…because of the transference energy that I acquired.

Positive affirmations are positive words or sentences that are repeated over in your subconscious mind.
We subconsciously do it with negative things…Like “I cant do it, I’m fat, I’m ugly, I’m a loser, I’m a failure, I hate this, I hate that…
Well, when we say things over and over…we teach ourselves to believe them!
So, if your looking to get rid of the drama in your life, try to take some quiet time alone and sneak away for break. and take at least 3 deep breaths and say positive words to yourself.
Here are examples of my positive affirmations
First and Foremost have a
Faith that you believe in… for me it is believing in Jesus Christ and so I believe that, Greater is He who is in me that he who is in the world!
I am Healthy and Happy
I am successful at all I need to do each day
I have so much energy!
I am wealthy and dept free
I have wisdom and comprehend very fast
I radiate love and passion for life
I am calm as a river
I am soft as a dove
I have great relationships with all my family and friends

These are just a few positive affirmations I use to chase away negative thoughts. I hope they can encourage you to try a few.

If you need more ideas for particular situations, please leave your questions in my comment box and I will address them as soon as possible.

A wise man once said  that it is not the destination that is important it it’s the journey…so don’t look at the negative nor the past………….Run the race and conquer any negativity and you can do anything you want to! WGG

Remembering 9/11/01

I was about to take my little girl and the neighbors daughter to school, when my phone rang and it was my mama.

She told me to go look at the TV…

The girls followed me and we were confused at what we were looking at…burning buildings, looked like people running everywhere…and then…

We saw an airplane crash into another building!

….tears fell from our eyes in panic and disbelief at what we were seeing.

My mama on the phone still was crying….

she had been trying to get call my brother, who lived just a few blocks from the terrorist attack!

He wasn’t answering his phone…

I kept trying to call him and I couldn’t get him either…

I did bring the kids to school that day and all the classes watched in horror as New York City fall apart…

… and then all the threats that were occurring in the United States.

My brother was supposed to be at the World Trade Center that morning the terrorist struck America.

My brother overslept…

…he looked out his windows to see bodies falling off the buildings…

My cousin lived just across from the World Trade Center too.

She just so happened to stay out late that night and wound up sleeping in Brooklyn!

But her cat Annie was still in the apartment!

My cousin lost everything in her apartment. Soot covered every thing…

But…Annie her cat was rescued.

… and now lives with my mama.

My brother couldn’t bare the losses he lived with day after day, the terror never left him….he now lives in on the west coast and cant even be reminded of this day.

My cousin lost her apartment and life goes on for her…She actually has an organic resturant in Brooklyn called “Rockin Raw”

www.RockinRaw.com

I had a friend that is an artist and lost everything in hurricane Katrina and had to move far away, but what she did manage to salvage a few negatives of the photographs from 9/11/01.…you can help her come back to New Orleans by visiting her website…www.musephotography.com You will have to request those pictures but she does have them as well as some from Katrina.

Random thought….do you know how many times I look at the clock and I see it says 9:11. That helps me to always remember, lets all….

Remember this day always. We lost alot in those days many of our loved ones and others will will never know.

I believe everything happens for a reason, I beleive our world changed alot  from that attack. I beleive many lives changed for the better.

So lets foucs on the positive things in life that we have today. Look around you and be blessed if you can see the blue sky or grey today for me but anyways take a deep breathe and remember to tell someone you love them, for you may not not if they will be there in the next moment.

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